Lifestyles are certainly different these days then way back when (oh, I know, it really wasn't all that long ago) when families were homesteading and wrapping their baby's bums in cloth all day because that's just what you do. Today, being able to keep your baby in cloth at all times is not only a practice of willpower, but a dance between convenience, social pressure, and stamina.
We've got
daycare centers that have an aversion to anything but disposable diapers, and if we don't take the time to inquire about 'why' or look up the state regulations ourselves, we might miss an opportunity to educate, and inspire folks to come out of their outdated habits and into a totally modern adaptation of something that has worked for millennia.
This is another reason why I love the
Real Diaper Association and the work that they do to support cloth diapering families. They've put together a
tip sheet about how to approach this topic with potential centers or at-home daycares.
I think the takeaway here, like so many other resolutions for conflict, it's about education and empathetic listening from both sides.
Then there's
NIGHTIME! dah duh dun..... Right, and friends will tell you 'oh, use a disposable they'll sleep through the night.' And as a sleep deprived parent, you'll just about do anything to make that wish come true. And if you rubbed a lamp and a genie came out, and gave you three wishes, you'd ask for that one three times just to make sure it came true.
But really, as we all know, it's not a healthy option. If this is a fact that you're not so sure on, please go to this page on our website, grab a cup of your favorite beverage, and read the writing on the wall.
EDU-MA-CATE! Be sure to read about the SAP that is found in disposable diapers, it's that 'magic goo' that makes the baby feel dry.
SO, you need some CLOTH solutions for NIGHTIME! Try a simple fleece diaper liner, it's amazing at keeping the surface of the diaper against your baby feeling dry. It's the same genius that's a part of a lot of the top layers in pocket diapers these days. This works well for those babies that wake right when they feel wet. Some could sit in it and not even care. It's more about the flow, read on.....
Here's another thing that worked for our family. DOUBLE UP! Use more than one diaper in the cover, so you get extra time before the morning change. This is good for heavy wetters. Don't forget about WOOL! Oh, that wonderful miracle fiber, it will keep your baby's clothes dry if you use a cover, or even try wool pants to hold in that moisture and avoid changing sheets and outfits. Amazing! Not to mention breathable, it's a natural fiber that helps negate rashes.
The other month I hosted a workshop on E.C. (elimination communication) and had a guest come in who was a facilitator of a local group. Her attitude about EC was honest and forward, and all of us curious mamas in the room were perched like on the top of the fence, in disbelief that it could actually work. Her message, "Just do it. Stop thinking about it, and do it. Take that diaper off your baby and do it." I kind of see the wisdom in that. I'm carrying that over into the nightime diaper topic. Just do it, choose cloth, get rid of the disposable diapers, and you'll make it to the morning, you'll make it to when they're out of diapers, you'll make it to their high school graduation, and you'll say to yourself, "yeah, I did it."
Just know this: You'll be doing a favor to your local landfill, your local aquifer, your baby's skin, your fellow citizen's health, and as an optimist, you'll hopefully be strengthening the demand for more cloth diaper producers, and shrinking the market of disposable diapers. Just do it.